Frequently Asked Questions
WHAT IS THE ONLINE COMMUNITY MEMBERS PLATFORM LIKE?
It's laid out like Facebook, however it is completely private to us! No prying from the platform creators themself or of passerbyers. It is NOT affiliated with Meta.
You get your own profile, feed, a community chatbox, DMs, livestreaming, and events.
It's a place where we can share stories, ask questions, and get to know and support one another. Instead of hashtags, we use "topics" and so posts get tagged into their topic group for you to easily find the content that you want!
Each month 2 bonus exclusive Uncaged Hearts Podcast episodes will be uploaded onto the community feed for you to enjoy ~ being raw, explicit confessions of people's real love and sex lives. So, there's the opportunity to comment and share your thoughts on what's released!
The online platform is also where you will find new events posted for you to sign up for - we're doing both online and in-person events!
WHAT ARE THE ONLINE EVENTS GOING TO BE LIKE?
We're doing a weekly online Peer Support Group Hang, weekly online Book Club, and monthly Connection Circle! These are all included with your base membership!
Additionally, we'll be offering monthly online workshops, which are opportunities to learn from professionals such as by our sex therapists, pro doms, somatic healers, etc! These online specialty workshops will vary in topic, length, style, and price.
WHAT WILL IN-PERSON EVENTS BE LIKE?
Every once in awhile we will be hosting specialty events for our Los Angeles members and livestream the events!
Some examples of events would be some Connection Circles lead by Audria.
The Connection Circles are a great way to learn core concepts and skills by listening, but also through practice and experiencing. These workshops are meant to help you learn how to truly connect on a whole other level and get to connect with the other participants.
There is never any nudity, sexual touch, or sexual interactions.
We also plan to host Movie Nites where we will watch a movie that is based on a topic such as polyamory, queerdom, or sexwork and then discuss it together!
As the community expands, partnerships are made, and community funds increase we look forward to bigger and more extravagant events, retreats, and more!
HOW WILL I KNOW IF I BELONG?
Know that we are not a sex club and you should not be a member if your ONLY intention is to date. We are about friendship and growth.
Our community is made up of the LGBTQAI, consensually approved/ethically non-monogamous, kinksters, and curious allies. Are you at least an openhearted and openminded curious ally? Then come hang with us inside!
WHAT ARE THE COMMUNITY GUIDELINES?
1. WE ARE CONSENT BASED. Don't assume someone you like likes you back or is up for being pursued romantically or sexually. Connect with someone publically, such as on the public feed in the comments, in the community chatbox, or at an online or in-person event before DMing them. If someone doesn't write back, then don't attempt to continue to reach out. Never touch anyone, even a hug, without asking them first. You never know where the other person is at personally and they may not be up for touch or conversation in general, or with you, and that needs to be okay. Respecting people's boundaries is key.
2. WE ARE NOT A SEX CLUB OR A PORN SITE. Please do not join expecting to post or view porn. Please do not join expecting nudity or sexual situations with the members.
3. WE WILL NOT TOLERATE SEXUAL HARASSMENT. This is to be a safe space where people don't have to worry about being objectified or inappropriately hit on. Keep comments appropriate regardless of how sexy the topic might be.
3. WE DO NOT TOLERATE BULLYING. We believe in kindness. If someone says something unknowingly problematic (which, we all probably have at one time or another) then it is fine to compassionately make your argument, as we are all for the sharing of ideas and growing together. However, it is not okay to insult, degrade, or harass someone.
If we feel you have broken any of these guidelines then we have the right to immediately remove you for the safety of the community.
No refunds will be given.
WHAT DOES THE COMMUNITY MEMBERSHIP PAY FOR?
Everything from hosting this website, to hosting the online community platform, to hosting zoom events, hosting in-person events, supplies, advertising, ETC!
Your support is absolutely needed for this community to run and the more we grow and as funds increase we will be able to do more cool shit!
We are extremely grateful for the support we receive for this community that is very linked to our uncaged hearts ;)
HOW DO I CANCEL MY MEMBERSHIP?
Email firstname.lastname@example.org to cancel your membership at any time.
If you are removed from the community for breaking community guidelines then you will not be refunded for the time you spent, but your membership will be stopped and payments ceased immediately. You will receive an email letting you know your plan has been canceled.
DO YOU COLLABORATE WITH PROFESSIONALS?
We do in many ways!
Our team is available for...
Festivals & Retreats
And we're consistently looking for new professionals to join the team!
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